Every house has its share of projects. My house has its share and a few other houses' shares as well.
I've learned two things from my experience with
Five Minute Jobs:
- Simple jobs almost always get more complicated; and
- Simple jobs that stay simple are merely bait to lure you into future disasters
You add that to my list of things I haven't done to the house - and you have a recipe for inaction.
I'll explain.
Back when we bought our house - the house inspection identified a number of things we needed to do to the place. I added my own items to it and turned it into a pretty hefty list.
Long lists are pretty intimidating by themselves, but long lists of home jobs are really lists of lists.
Any one item turns into countless more detail. A list of things to do before you start. Tools you will need to rent or purchase. Parts and supplies you will need to buy. Research you will need to do.
And then of course - the list of stuff you will need to do when you actually start the job and find out your initial plan just isn't going to work.
The knowledge that each and every item could balloon into a total nightmare is a powerful motivation to put stuff off.
But some jobs can't be ignored.
The
patio project was a bit of a watershed moment. The patio was a must. It was a giant mud bog behind our house - and (to my mind) was going to be far too expensive to pay somebody to put in a brick patio for us.
Had to be done. Hiring somebody is out of bounds.
This is not to say I haven't ignored other jobs like that before, but the patio was a job was something else, too. It was accessible. It didn't have to be done in a hurry. And starting it didn’t require me to turn my entire house upside done.
So I took the plunge. And I accidentally learned something obvious about home jobs.
Yeah, I screwed up. And took too long. But after I put down the last brick, I got to go back to my list and write the words DONE after the patio job.
Hadn't done that in awhile. And having something on the list that was done was a big help.
I think of my dad's ability to fix damn near anything and I think I get it now. My dad was tenacious, sure - but his defining trait in this sphere was his total lack of inertia. It drove him crazy when stuff didn't work properly, or was done wrong. I have that trait - but I have inertia. Lots of it.
But I'm stubborn, too. And I know if I start a job - giving up will bug me beyond my ability to deal.
So: I get off my @ss, - stuff will get done. My list has helped prove that to me.
Now I keep a google doc with my list so I can access it anywhere. Everything on it is Active, Pending, or Done.
Active jobs have to-dos by them and dates when they were updated.
Pending jobs are supplemented with supporting data (needed parts, contact information for vendors)
and Done jobs? They're there so I can review them and see that stuff got done. Motivate myself to do more stuff.
Tenacity will get me out the other side if I just start. And I can always hire a pro if need be. But putting stuff off that affects quality of life - is robbing me and my family of quality of life.
And I'm done putting up with crap like that.